
Among all the customary emergencies that make up my life I came across an unusual voice mail message and a puzzling email which actually might be good news. I will not be counting any chickens because since it was my email & voice mail. I am not being melodramatic but history has taught me to be cautious. The email was from Bob, my boss in my last perm job (I was let go 4/07). All of my coworkers & bosses have managed to keep in touch which says a lot about how much we all enjoyed working with each other.
"Hi, Got a call from xxx at xxx on Friday for a reference.
She told me you are joining xxx - congratulations - glad to hear it.
Gave her a great review -- which you deserve.
Just wanted to drop you a note. Everything is the same with me - still consulting at xxx -- really, not bad at all -- for now.
Lots of luck -- wish you all the best.
Stay in touch."
Now why this is such an odd email is because I did not get a job offer. In fact I firmly believe I my current job is being phased out & I have been expecting to find out when my assignment is ending. I have applied for other jobs at the company I am consulting but no one has interviewed me since Dec. 2008. So this must mean some one will be making me a job offer from my current spot. Normally that would be great. Unfortunately the group I am in has a very toxic culture but medical benefits, vacation, and paid holidays can be very high incentives. So if I do get a job offer I pray that the salary is something that we can live on. Or possibly maybe one of the other groups I work with has a need that they would like me to fill.
Wednesday we find out if our son looses his license. Saturday he sliced his hand open at work, so far we think it is fine. Friday DH & DS has a major clash which had me majorly upset. My son thinks since he turned 18, he gets to make his own rules. So not only do I have the cat alpha wars with my two fuzzy girls, I also have my 2 guys who both have big tempers butting heads. Then there my mom, who only wants me to spend my every waking hour taking care of her needs. Now she lives 3 hours away from me and I do work full time. Mom is up in years but basically since I have been about 8 or 9 I have been the parent. I was one of those odd little kids who never had a childhood. I turned 40 decades ago, now the rest of me has caught up. She will be the death of me because I have spent the majority of my life time protecting her from herself. There have been a few emergencies with her this week that have really taken their toll on me so I could use some good news.